Because it’s what all the cool people do. Not really. I feel like education is a personal choice for each family. We have done it all with academics: public school, home school, private and international school. Did I leave any out? With our oldest starting his sophomore year in college, and youngest going into 8th grade, we’re learning a lot but there’s still several years to go.
Back to answer, “Why we home school”, there are several reasons. The most important one is because we feel it’s what God wants us to do this year. I’m not a hard-core “If you’re a real woman, you home school the whole way through” kind of chic. I prefer to think about the following things as we look at our education choices: What does this child need right now: in their academics, character, confidence, people skills, and spiritual life? The other big question is this: What’s going on in my life as a mom? Can I commit to homeschooling, or do we need to look at other options right now because of our family situation, finances, or other personal matters? And of course, we pray. A lot. And wait to hear what direction we feel God is taking us.
When people discover that we home school, they’ll often ask me, “Did you home school Christian, your oldest, all the way through?” It makes me smile when they ask that, because I feel like they’re asking me, “Do you have x-ray vision?” or “Did you make that entire quilt by hand?” (By the way, the answer is definitely no) Because I know that many, many days, I feel completely inadequate as a home educator. I know that in my own self, I could not do it. But this is where God has us right now. It’s really fun and really challenging.
A couple of years ago, I really struggled with the question of whether or not we should home school that year. As I prayed about it often, God spoke to me clearly through a song. The lyrics repeat over and over again “I don’t wanna gain the whole world and lose my soul”, reminding me of the verse in Mark 8:36- What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? I remembered that years ago I had planned what I would do when my kids reached school age. I would take tennis lessons, have a lot of cute tennis outfits, and lunch with my girlfriends. Wow, has it turned out different from what I planned! I felt like God was asking me if I wanted to “gain the whole world” with those things that I had planned, or give up that for a while and pour life into my child’s soul. I still think about how fun the tennis thing would be one day…Maybe later!